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		  happytomeetyou  (deleted)
 
  
		     
	     
		 
		 
		
 
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				 Posted:     Post subject: Everyone assumes I must be a lesbian after 20 years w/GF | 
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				My same --- partner left me after 20 years together.  We met when we were 24. Now that I am single again, everyone expects me to date women. I tell people that she left me and they try to set me up with their lesbian friends.  But I am not a lesbian!  People get so confused when I say I'm looking to date men as well as women, as if I couldn't really be bi if I was with her for that long.  Or else they have always seen me as their lesbian friend, and now I am screwing up their whole idea of who I am by dating men.  I know who and what I am, but it would be SO much easier if I were simply gay or straight.  I wish I could get people to understand that I loved her for who she was, not what gender she was. :roll:
 
 
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		blazzineyes
 
  
		     
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		Joined: November 17, 2011 
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				`It's very unfortunate what has happend so late in your life ppl that aren't bi don't understand lol but here you just might find what u need welcome!
 
 
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