I did't think finding another woman would be so hard!!!!!?

[seriouslyseekin (deleted)]

Well I really didn't think finding a woman would be so hard. Women are supossed to be more casual about things....I thought. I have been curious for about 15 years and just started to pursue my curiousity about a year ago. Are some women unconfident about their selves like some men are? Or am I just not the right material? What is going on here? Is it because I'm a V to eating? Well I can tell you with my wild mind and dreams that will be no problem at all. Maybe even the best lickin you ever had. Is there a secret code or something I don't know about?? Someone please help me to understand!!!!!!!

[rawrbaby08]

`Trust me hun i know that feeling!!ing there is some secret code they arnt letting us in on*sigh*

[lovewithoutfear (deleted)]

.I'm pretty scared to come on to women, myself. I know how to handle men. But I only came out as bi in my 30s.

[alienanne_PREV (deleted)]

Oh my. I'm experiencing something similar. I've had one time ------ experiences with two different girls before but it seems to end there. And yes, I'm starting to think that maybe I'm not 'right material' either as you put it and it's so friggin frustrating. I want to experience having a girlfriend and explore further emotional bond, and check if there is really any difference at all with men. Good luck and kisses to us hopefuls.

[fanticywalker]

`well at least i know im not alone on having trouble with all this .I have been looking to try this for well over a year and it just hasnt gotten any easyer .It always seems to be that im not what other people are wanting . Good luck you all .

[curiosqueen]

`I hear you hun. I have been looking for a while and sometimes feel like I am not getting anywhere. Most of us would like to match a compatible connection.
kisses

[curiousplay (deleted)]

`Hi ladies,

I've been curious for a while and finally decided to do something about it. But where do you find another lady who is bi/bicurious? How do you even know if she's bi? I didnt realize how difficult it was to find someone!!

[sunnie2008_PREV (deleted)]

`I have been with a women before but started to be be with only men and now I miss the --- it is difficult to find someone who wants a no strings friendship w/benefits.

Have you tried going to any clubs?

[ccamml_PREV (deleted)]

I have hit about eery site there is to hit. I still can't find a woman near me in NC. So I know how you feel. I refuse to go out clubbing to find someone. So I guess I will just have to be content with my boyfriend.

[reason2be]

.I just came out and nobody really knows im Bi, i wanna meet someone speacial who can fill my heart

[coffeegurl22008]

`Ok ladies,

How do you know if she is bi? been str all my life now looking for a female friend in a different way. I am not sure what to do or say.

[bsugar41]

I can identify with all of you. I recenty decided to act on my bi feelings but to no a vail. Im scared to post my pic because im scared some one will see me that i know. However, if you dont post a pic no one even talk to you. I recently uploaded a photo and im waitng for it to be approved. What is that. Anyway im seek someone to have fun with. Anyone in NYC.

[seriouslyseekin (deleted)]

`Well I have been away from the site for a while because I got so irritated. Hopefully someone in here has had some luck. I haven't. I still haven't found out that secret code to finding a woman that is looking for the same thing I am. I want a woman I can be friends with. With the playing on the side. I am just as iffy about posting pics and what not, but I am very serious and determined about what I am seriously seeking.....lol. But I wish you all a safe and happy holidays. Maybe we should form a group. That might help us to find like minded women. We are all obviously nervous. If we were with our kind (curious) that would definitely ease some of the tension.

[silleefoot (deleted)]

`I'm bummed out to hear that no one's been able to find what they're looking for and me it would seem)...especially after the half hour it took me to fill all of this out!!!

I don't think I'd be shy about telling a girl she was hot or what I am looking for, which is really just drama-free experimentation with someone as clueless and curious as me.

However, my question is where in the hell am I supposed to go to with this idea? I've had encounters with chicks, but usually it's on a dare...or alcohol induced. I just really want to explore...lor at least see how far I can get in the process...

Someone break the ice!

[dommon]

`have read replies to this gals frustrations - ladies, you're not using your gifts of seduction!
1. Get on your local phone dating service 2. Find a guy who sounds sane 3. Contact him and ask him to post this message 4. "hi ladies, my girl friend is bi and looking for a bi gal to talk to" 5. He gets contacts, gives them to you, you ---- --!! I do this as a guy and get lots of replies.