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lesbiangirly
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Hmmm...it took me quite a long time to accept that i was gay.
After that, i guess ive called myself gay. But is that really necessary?? Do i really have to put myself in a group, cause im attracted to women. I dont love men less just because i dont feel that same physical attraction to them. I love men...sooo much.
I love people. I respect people just the way they are. I accept and respect that people see some things different than me.
I believe that we can change the attitude there is between different groups, just by loving and respecting eachother a little more.
This is my thoughts about this subject.
What do you think?
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svtowner
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`I agree its about the whole acceptence issue...once u get past that you become alot more comfortable with how u feel az bout everything
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lesbiangirly
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`I totally agree! Im glad ive past that :-)
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svtowner
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`IF u ever wanna chat sometime you can email me
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lesbiangirly
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`Done sweetie!
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`My experience with "labeling" are somewhat different than the norm.My 1st ------ experience was with a girl.And that's the way it went for the next 2 years.Then one day I slept with a boy.Then I had to come to the terms that I might be straight,yikes! Then I thought "hey bisexual,that might work!". There it is,my label,and am quite comfortable with it.
As to society and what they may or not think...I couldn't care a less.It's my body,my life,and I will do what I well like.Because......that's the way I roll.
I suppose growing up in L.A./Hollywood and the crowd I am in with it's easy for me,as straights are the minority.It seems everyone I know is either gay/lesbian/or bisexual.
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lesbiangirly
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`Well i understand that some people feel good about putting a label on their ------ity. And i guess in the society today, its easier to put that label on. Ive always been into girl. I have tried to date men, and i really clicked with some of them...mentally, but no ------ spark. I still think that all those "labels" have a way of building groups, which i personaly dont like. I guess its very different in different countries. Here in small Sweden, especially lesbian, have a thing about only hang out with eachother and put the rest of the world aside. I just dont want to be compared to those girls.
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graymatterlove
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`I don't think ------ity should have labels. Giving labels only gives cause to segregate and judge what is essentially universal anyways. I am attracted to who someone is and if that person is male or female it shouldn't be labeled anymore then if she were black or white.
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lesbiangirly
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| ``great comments graymatterlove! |
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