Not gay enough and not straight enough either?

[deshawn03]

Just seeing how everybody feels on this. I definitely feel this way every now and then.

Thanks for your votes!

[joevil (deleted)]

`i never feel either, bisexuals are every bit as valid as any othe s----lity, i've heard it all before "men are just gay, they can't be bisexual" so what, i have to ahve a puss to like both?

i like both, equally, i like females and males, and if i find somone that just can't live with that then their not for me are they?

[mustable]

`I enjoy both sexes. Human s----lity is very powerful and your feelings should not be denied. Life is too short.

[nekosenshi]

`It can be lonely at times. There is a prejudice against bisexual women in the lesbian community. But I can't deny that part of myself anymore than I could deny liking men.

[kagashinobi (deleted)]

`I'm just starting to accept and act on my bisexuality so it will be interesting to see how I fel in naother year.

[kagashinobi (deleted)]

``I'm just starting to accept and act on my bisexuality so it will be interesting to see how I feel in another year.

[caroline4567]

`Not fitting into any boxes...

I find it frustrating that I don't seem to fancy guys who on paper I totally should because they seem amazing... but then when it gets to it there is not really that extra connection that I would expect to be there. At the same time women should be friends...
I think that the problem of not fitting into either box is that there should be no boxes in the first place. Surely all relationships are different, some friends feel like they should be closer but it is hard to move them out of that friendship box... Perhaps no one should make categories at all. Maybe no body should be gay or straight or bi or anything else and we should all just have varying preferences, diverse relationship styles and flexible attitudes.
I find it hard to call myself any of the labels because none of them really fit. The problem is that other people like to know where they stand...

Long story short, yes I do feel that way sometimes.

[shikitty]

`Why pick a side or gender when I can have both???? If the truth be known I am more attracted to females than men.

[samaille (deleted)]

`I have long ago accepted that I am equally attracted to men and women. It's their soul that matters, their fire for life, their passions and dreams. So in that respect I call myself bisexual by default, but what is bisexuality? What does my OWN bisexuality mean? I swear it changes every day, and with every person I meet. Sometimes a person's biological S-- makes all the difference (and I like all the differences) and then everyone's biological S-- is different, too. I think bisexuals are basically those people who think and feel and love for themselves without conforming to any culture or subculture or social expectation. It is the basic stance, isn't it?

[seagypsy12]

`I ALWAYS feel like I'm not gay enough nor straight enough!!! Mainly because most of the people I fancy are male (with the occasional female), but never straight men - I only ever fancy gay or bisexual men!!! I'm now 32 and I don't know if I've ever fancied a totally hetro man. I really want to meet a guy who is looking for a woman to fall in love with, but it needs to be a bi guy bcos I just do not fancy hets. I hate it when people say "why choose when you can have both?" because for me, I can't have Either!!! GRRR...

[jamieboy (deleted)]

I think a lot of members of the straight and gay world think bisexuals are sleeping with the enemey.

[taranova]

`I believe it's all what you make it. Sure, sometimes it's tricky to try and h--k up with people once you tell them you're bisexual. People tend to be somewhat jealous already, let alone if people have competition from both sexes, but it's all about being absolutely clear about your intentions.

You obviously cannot tell a person that you just met whether we'll become friends, friends ---- -------- or even more, but I'm the kind of girl that does commit when someone gets my heart. And if they don't trust me, it's not going to work to begin with.

To get back on-topic, I'm just being me, myself and I. A girl in her early twenties that really couldn't give a damn about whether I'm in a relationship with a guy or a girl, as long as there's a 'click' between us, but also a girl with a personality. And if people can't look any further than at my s----lity, they don't deserve my attention, time and energy.

[submission (deleted)]

`I see a lot of brothers and sisters on here worrying waaaaay too much about what other people think of their s----lity.Personally I don't give a rats --- what anyone thinks about who or why I sleep with.I denote over sensitive people on here with some esteem issues.I am very confidant in who and what I am.But then again I am 6'2" in my high heels with martial arts training.I also have people working for me and basically no one looks at me crosseyed and gets away with it.
But hey,if you are going to let people rent space in yor head then more power to you.
I like men for the animal passion they bring,I like women for the sensitivity and sweetness they offer me.I need both to feel complete.I do feel complete and require no ones approval to feel so.
Yes my name is Submission but that is only role playing.Be proud brothers and sisters.....like yourself,love yourself.Proceed without any doubts and you'll do just fine.

[fullfromhoney (deleted)]

` I have a lot of problems with the lesbians. Why do bisexual mean that I'm a ---- or I don't know what I want? I don't understand where they get this from especially when there are way more hetersexual people with s----l transmitted diseases. People view bisexuality as one big party. And that we are going to cheat automatically. I don't get it. Anybody will cheat if they wanted to regardless of their s----lity.

[equalz3 (deleted)]

`yes and is harder when no one sees it normal