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nekosenshi
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Joined: July 28, 2009
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I don't know how to explain my s----lity. I just know that since I was old enough to feel s----l attraction, I've been split on it. As an adult, I have been with both genders and I don't think one is necessarily better than the other. I am very tired of people who assume all bisexuals are homosexuals in denial, or that you have to 'choose a side'.
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`Personally, I think there is a whole lot of confusion out there on both sides with this issue. I have never understood the need for society to label people. I have never had an issue with being "bi" and have always been comfortable in my own skin. I take the ignorance with a grain of salt and move on because that's all it is - sheer ignorance. Individuality is what makes us marginally better than the animals and it should be embraced, not repulsed. When friends speak loudly with b----er I point to their own ignorance as their main failing and I continue to live my life. I have not lost any true friends because of it and have gained respect from the ones who I truly care about. Don't let it bother you so much, please!
Ultimately, the only one you have to wake up with in the morning is yourself, and if you can look in the mirror without wincing or can even smile then you are just fine! They are the ones with the problems and the judgers become the judged at some point. If you are labeled ask yourself if that person's ignorant opinion really matters to you - and don't ever stop asking yourself that. You will be much happier in your life.
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`well its like this . no you cant explain it. and even if you could they would not, could not understand. the only ones that will ever understand are bi . and dont waste your money on a damn shrink when you think you have fell out of your tree mate. they wont understand either. not unless they are bi themselves. they cant scratch the itch they themselves have never had.
that said dont bother arguing or explaining it (your s----lity) , just hold your peace . and let it pass.
also a thought here , why is it that when in a relationship men generally dont want to let a woman have a girlfriend? ok 3 ways are great sometimes but why not just let them be intimate with one another without him there ?
or how about you men that have been honored with the affections of these wonderful creatures known as bi women , get to know their heart as well as you have gotten to know their bodies and let them have their hearts desire, whatever it is ! you wont be sorry. i'm just sayin!
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My family says the exact same thing to me and keeps trying to force me to choose between men and women. I keep trying to tell them that I am young and I don't know who my true soul mate is - they could very well be a man or a woman & I don't want to limit myself to one S-- and deny myself true happiness because of it.
I've just accepted the fact that there's going to be prejudice wherever I go and everyone has an opinion on how I should live my life. I have great friends within the LGBT community that love me for who I am.
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sunnstorms
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Joined: November 21, 2010
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`Gays are fighting to have society see that being gay is not a choice. Straights are fighting to say it IS choice whom one is attracted to. Bi's wreck both arguments While we are able to choose whom we settle down with in a committed relationship, we are not able to limit ourselves to being attracted to just 1 gender.
Science has shown that 1 out of 100 births results in a child being born with varying degrees of BOTH male and female chemistry and/or genetalia....so why on earth does anyone think it is NOT possible for heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality to all be completely natural?
I am fortunate to be married to a man who understands my feelings and attractions to women, and is comfortable and secure enough in our relationship to allow me to be who I am. Others can be as prejudiced as they like....I need only please God (who created me as I am), my hubby, and the woman who (hopefully) will be my soulmate :)
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hello new here, middle-aged man, happily married, but once every few months, I get a strong physical attraction for my side... scared to tell anyone, but this time I made a first step by finding this site.
I agree with the concept that bisex is mainly about sex, albeit for me I would love to see it in a friendly and fun environment... looking to more more about myself through this site
(cambridge, UK)
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Posted: Post subject: I can't be bi? |
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I've had people tell me it's one way or another, not both. I just tell them I ought to know who I'm attracted to. End of debate.
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taranova
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I do understand why people would think bisexual people are indecisive, but as it's said already, these people just don't know us well enough. Or don't even know people in general well enough.
If their ignorance and stupidity means they have to generalize all people, or bisexual people in this case, it's just not worth getting angry with or about them. If you're able to switch the anger off, there's not much left than pity. Or even worse, that I can't even give a rat's arse about their opinion.
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