Bi and proud!

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@taranova
If you're into boring run of the mill ho hum sex,then condoms work quite well.But if you're into garden variety --- you can't use condoms.Can you put one on your mouth?
I won't give you a medical lecture on STD's.But right now things are not good where I live.It comes and goes here.People get scared,then see doctors,take pills and then certain STD's go away.It happens here,it's like that. L.A./Hollywood is a very fast lifestyle.We learn,we evolve,we overcome.We are liberal here,but not stupid.We back off when we have to.
Also I got hurt emotionally,need time to regroup.Want to stay away from close contact.Cybersex makes me feel hot,sexy,desired.I'll take it for now and believe me,there are those who are wanting this with me.

[taranova]

`No offence, but it rather sounds like an unwise (or even unknowing) lifestyle if STD epidemics happen often in LA, but heck... maybe I'm thinking too rational here. Unlike in a lot of parts of the States, ------ity isn't a taboo here in the Netherlands.

STDs do happen over here ofcourse, but definitely not in epidemics. First of all because most parents tell their kids about ------ity (both the pleasurable as the unpleasurable aspects of it) before schools get the opportunity to do so (and even then, we're still getting it in class). But second because the Dutch are fairly down to earth people.

Sure, protected --- does kill some of the feeling, but it sure damn beats having a burning or itchy crotch... and all it takes to make protected --- a more intense experience again, is just a little creativity. When there's a will, there's a way.

Anywho, I bet there are people that want to have cybersex with you. Or basically with any woman that's below 30, plenty of old dudes over here... of which I'm even surprised that some are still able to perform. XD

[taranova]

`And by the way... sorry Emily, for kind of ruining your topic. ;)

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`@taranova
FYI it's mostly women who want cybersex with me.I choose,not them(men over 30) and the girls are hot.
So tulip girl,everyone is so proper there huh,not like here? I'll build a windmill in your honor.Stay away from the wooden shoes,you can get splinters from them.

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`@taranova
Being an*l is so attractive,I'm sure that will get people to e-mail you now.You've certainly chosen the right site to wag your ethical/moral finger.I'm sure you'll make lots of friends here.

[graymatterlove (deleted)]

`@taranova I think you are getting the wrong perception of what is really going on here. I also live, work, and party on la ( although truth be told the real party is west Hollywood) not only la but gay la and I'm not aware of STD's being anymore prominent here then anywhere else in the nation. Actually for number of the many types of STD's the west coast has the fewest numbers of reported cases dc being the highest. I am not saying that being so we should let our guard down by any means but just to show that we are in fact very cautious. In most gay bars and clubs they have posters about screenings and some even give out free condoms. Please don't get the misconception that we are disease ridden whores here in la.

[taranova]

`@ Submission; I guess your real nature has sadly come out, now that you have to play it personal so badly, eh? I guess I'll have to bring out my 'ethical/moral finger' out once more in order to hope that you will find guidance in order to deal with your temper.

Until that time, have fun with your Ms. Independent tunnel vision and your lack of willingness to just take a pointer or 2 from somebody else every once in a while...

@ Graymatterlove; Let me make myself clear that the last thing that I wanted to imply, is that I got this idea of everybody in LA being disease ridde whores. All I pretty much wanted to say, is that there are possibilities to do whatever you want to do, even when times are rough.

That some people apparently get offended, just because I'm giving an example or 2 to prove my point, that's their problem, isn't it?

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`@taranova
It is common knowledge that Dutch food gives people bad gas.You must be very noisey in the bedroom.Quick someone get ear plugs,and air freshner too!
"I wish they all could be California
I wish they all could be California
I wish they all could be California girls..do da do da do da do daaaaa"
Well they can't,some are sily little Dutch girls who have a high opinion of themselves.
Say,who picked out your outfit,your grandmother?

[emilyblack15 (deleted)]

`Wow Drama, drama, drama... You guys should be nice to each other your too pretty to be arguing.

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`@Emily
Ya things got a little heated to be sure.But....I can be a real B---- sometimes.I just felt I was being judged and I don't react well when that happens.
This is a bisexual dating site.No place for people to come on here and moralize and well.....we bisexuals get that "judging" thing a lot don't we? Maybe I'm just fed up with it,and I tend to be defensive when I feel my lifestyle is under the microscope.

[emilyblack15 (deleted)]

`Ya I understand... I would get defensive too. You just have to see from all perspectives, wither they are right or wrong.. But At least your not afraid to stand your ground and be your self. :)

[sexydeviant (deleted)]

`I agree i hate being looked down upon because im bisexual. excuse me if i am an extremely ------ human being, its a shame people can't love and appreciate both genders as much as i do. I will proudly say i'm "greedy" if it means i can have fun and not be afraid to express myself --------.

[emilyblack15 (deleted)]

`Ya I totally agree with you! Every human being should be able to express themselves freely, and if being bisexual is the way they chose to do that then the should be accepted...

Your gorgeous BTW ;)