Brandywyne, 37

Looking for a great friend and lover! I'm 26, and well, very new to this kinda thing. I've never used any "sites" or "personal ads" to find something like this, and I've only ever been with another woman once a year or so back. Since then, it's been on my mind nonstop. Aside from always thinking about it, I'm also looking for a good friend too. It's hard making friends these days, especially since I'm not much for bars. I am a mother of only 1, she is 4. She always comes first, as any child should be to a parent. I am also married, he's not "unsatisfying" by any means, and we love each other dearly. But he is aware of my passion for women, and he knows I want a "playmate" per-say. I'd also like it to be *not* completely out of the question for him to be involved from time to time. Certainly not every time. And most definitely not the first time of meeting someone. It's not always easy for me to have "one on one" time with another person, hell not even with myself (lol), and it's not always easy to "hide" that kinda passion.
I'm looking for someone around 21-45ish, I have morals and values, and I expect the same from a friend. I'm also looking for a "girly" looking type of friend. I'm not attracted to "fems" or butch type women, but I'm not prejudice so if that's your thing, awesome! It's just not my cup o'tea
Really, I'm just not that picky when it comes to this. I just know there's gotta be a playmate out there for me, that can double as a good friend to talk to, go shopping with, those type of things.
So, if ya like and agree with what ya see/read, I'm looking forward to hearing from someone soon!