Capcb71, 54

This is all new to me..ive never been with a woman before. i was married for 12 years, i have 4 children 3 of which are over 18. ive been single now for 5 years in which ive dated here and there. i just cant seem to find that last piece of the puzzle to make a complete picture. is it a man or woman? i dont know. thats why im here.