Divaseeking, 60

Seeking someone Real?? You've seen them, they are the adds that read the following: "I am seeking a female friend as I just recently (at the age of 30) discovered that I am not the only female on the planet and my boyfriend has ever so happily excepted that I need another woman to complete me." What they really mean is ... "I am a shallow insecure nobody who must bow to my boytoy in all I do. So please be my friend so that he may play too, then he may like me for a little longer than 3 months."

I am not such a person, if that is what you seek, hit the NEXT button and move along. I am a 45 year old mother to 3 children ages 17 down to 8. My husband is aware of my 'friends' and has no desire to become involved. That would be our decision. I have a career, a car, a house and responsibilities. I am intelligent, well read and articulate. I do not smoke nor drink and am disease free. I expect the same of you.

I would appreciate a person who has the IQ above the average garden salad and conversational skills beyond my 8 year old. I understand baggage is often there for mature persons which I would want, but please don't be packed for a round the world trip.

Thank you for reading this far, you are braver than most. I look forward to hearing from anyone who is a natural born female of ages 35 to 50.

G