Dm1985, 40

I'm newly out as bi and would like to meet other bisexuals for dating and/or friendship. I'm especially looking for people who aren't in a hurry to have sex, as I like to take things slow, and people who are okay with the fact that I don't have a lot of experience in the dating world, and almost zero experience with women. While in college, I was more interested in friendship than dating, and also focusing on school and trying to "find myself," whatever exactly that means. But we all have to start somewhere, right? As far as hobbies and personality I don't fit into a lot of boxes, or maybe I fit into too many. More than anything I guess I consider myself of a geek/nerd as I love video games (mostly RPGs), sci-fi, foreign languages, and science. I'm also involved in online fandom and the occasional fan convention, mostly with the TV show Supernatural. But I'm not socially incompetent, and while I can be very introverted at times, I also really enjoy people, and my friends are the focus of my life. I also love the outdoors, camping, hiking, etc. I don't like football, don't really care for most other ball sports either. I've always had more guy friends than girls, and generally spend more time with them, but I have lots of female friends as well, especially through fandom. I don't think of myself as particularly masculine, but not extremely feminine either. I tend to dress for comfort and wear a minimum of makeup, but still care about my appearance even though fashion/makeup/hair stuff tends to bore me (which is why I tend to have more in common with guys). I'm not at all aggressive, and am actually fairly easily intimidated, but I also can take a stand when I need to, especially if it's for my friends/family. People say I'm very kind and caring, a good friend and a good listener, and that I'm funny. I'm either really quiet or a chatterbox, depending on who you ask. I tend to start out quiet but once I warm up (or have a drink or two) I can talk q