Drem13, 38

Altruistic guy seeking a companion I am the primary custodian of my child. As such setting dates can be tedious at times.

I am not here for an encounter, seeking lifetime connections.

I do show ---------- for others but I am not -------- with my own s----lity.

I am a married swinger of over 7 years. This does not mean I am a "bed hopper" by any means, in 7 years of marriage only 5 extramarital partners. 2 being anther couple, and the other 3 all being close friends.

I am a bit of a homebody with occasional love for the outdoors. Not too much for big crowds (excepting the occasional club outing or concert) I am all about my family, my daughter's needs exceed all else in my life. Have a love for music of many genres (favorites are Rock and Electronica) Read fantasy adventure, detective, true crime and non fiction/informational books. Love intellectual conversation and friendly debates. I am currently schooling to become and Educator, currently working on my Secondary Education Certificate, with focus on professorship. Professionally I am hoping to find work as a Teaching Assistant with in 2 years and a professor myself with in 6. Have a love of learning and will probably continue to take courses for my entire professional career. Tid bit chatty for some peoples liking. I am very much androgynous (in between masc and fem) almost completely neutral on the BSRI (small feminine lean). I am bi in more than just s----lity, seeking male companionship and wish to find a great guy as well as having an amazing woman in my life. I personally believe in polygamy and polyamoury. I am open to gay or bi couples looking for a 3rd (perhaps even ideal)I am also open to MTF transsexuals who do not plan for full reassignment. . . perhaps wanting both is a hint to much more to be explored with in myself. Open mind is my mantra.

What I am seeking
Male: LTR/Permanent companionship
Female: Experienced activity partner for long term. Preferably cougar.