Figments, 36

looking. i tend lean more towards men, but i'm definitely not exclusive.
while i believe monogamy is a product of theological culture rather than innate, if mr or miss right comes along and wants monogamy i'm not about to run a mile, i can make that compromise easily. i don't really go in for the whole open relationship scene either because they always seem to end in jealousy; seems (at least to me) that people can't help but feel subconsciously betrayed.
i think it's healthier if a couple have the same accomplices rather than separate ones.

i'm looking for a partner, a best friend. someone who is fun to be around and be with. someone who will both laugh at me and with me. someone who will get into misadventures with me. someone who will put up with me and all my silly little quirks. in short, someone who will live life with me.

i can't cook, i'm lousy at make-up, what's housework again? and the last pair of shoes i bought were steel-caps...
i do however like pizza, rum and video games.

i like comedy clubs, pc games and travel. although i haven't done nearly enough of that last one.
i'm also a night owl with a not so subtle sardonic sense of humour.

i'm an atheist and tend to lean to the left in politics with social and secular tendencies. but i'm also a realist, i recognise we don't live in a perfect world. in the words of the wise homer simpson "in theory communism works, in theory"

i prefer meeting for coffee and seeing if something clicks.
i'm told i have a twisted sense of humour, drop me a line if you twist the same way.

oh, and , one night stands and calling me 'babe' are just not on the cards here.