Ihavestandards, 41

i don't need a patriarchal structure to validate me. i fly fine on my own. the more time i've had to find out who i am, the more i realize that many areas of my life have been oppressed. only after having been alone for a couple of years did i come to the realization that i am just as attracted to women as i am to men. that is how i got here.

i am an intelligent, funny, kind, sober and ambitious woman seeking the same in a man or woman. i use these gender terms lightly.