Joeaverage, 47

Looking for someone who understands Hey there.......not sure where to begin, except that I have bisexual tendencies.....I have not "acted" on them yet and I'm not sure I ever will, but I know that it would be great to be with someone who understood that.....I guess I don't want to wake up one day and have to share that with my wife...would rather be open to a lifestyle of honesty with a loved one....I want kid or kids....but I want to have them in a husband/wife household to give them stability. I am very attracted to women and yet I do have a pull toward men, however I have only been with women to this point....but it would be great to be with someone who would understand the needs we each would seek with different partners......I'm NOT looking to just sleep around.....I can do that now if I want to......but to find someone who wants to attack life together side by side with honesty and understanding set at the beginning.....just wondering if there are any women out there who agree with having a "secret" life to others but an open life to each other.....blah, blah, blah.......hit me up if this speaks to you at all. Thanks.