Katykaboom, 43

Looking for something one on one and special with a girl. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN COUPLES!

I'm (very) recently getting out of a relationship (broken engagement) and at this very moment, I am not looking for anything serious. Which is not say I don't want to be taken seriously. I'm open to casual dating and cozy friendships, but I'm not here to be some chick on the net to h--k up with either. I want companionship and a bit of affection. I just moved to LA a couple of months ago from San Bernardino county. I came out here to pursue my dream career of makeup artistry. I'm in school right now and beginning to to work freelance. I'll go ahead and make it known that I have a son, he's 8 years old. He isn't currently living with me, but I do plan to move him back in with me, after I'm finished with school and feeling more secure in my career plans. My ideal match is a guy close to my age, who is doing something significant to pursue an ambition (student or already in a career field you enjoy, active musician or artist), you don't do drugs (prescription or illegal; I *can* tolerate moderate pot smoking, but I'd prefer you not), you have a firm grip on your emotions and are mentally stable (sorry, two bi polar exes later, I can't do it, again), you aren't bothered that I'm a parent and you like chubby girls, because I am a chubby girl. I think I covered all the important stuff.