Milleniumspirit, 33

18 bicurious male I'm just trying to become more comfortable with my identity and try to get a clearer idea of my ------ orientation. I feel that I am bisexual, though I've never been in a relationship with another guy yet. It's only recently that I've come to grips with my orientation, so it still feels a little awkward and I have only told a few people. I'm hoping that being a member of this site will help to reduce that awkwardness and introduce me to the bisexual community.

I am 5'11" and weigh about 160. I have brown hair that changes colors (sometimes it looks black and sometimes it looks a little red, depending on the light and how wet it is) and brown eyes that some people say look hazel (I actually think my eyes have three different colors; one friend said they remind her of a forest).

I like reading and writing, and I like doing martial arts. I like music, too, and I have eclectic tastes ranging from Nirvana, Tool, Pink Floyd, Pearl Jam, and Alice in Chains to Michael Jackson, Eminem, and Celtic music. I also want to learn how to play the guitar and the piano.

Because I'm trying to be sure about my ------ity I am looking to date another guy. I know it sounds bad, but I feel the need to 'experiment' with a guy. But I am open to anyone I feel a strong connection with. I'd be fine dating a girl I really like. Ultimately, I would like someone who is open minded, caring, generous, and who likes nature, philosophy, and doesn't mind being unconventional. But I'm not going to be too picky when it comes to a first relationship or experience with another guy since I DO want to know what it's like.