I'm very happily married to a man, and also bisexual. (I joke with my husband that I may be a lesbian, who happened to fall in love with him). He is my world, and I have no plans to ever leave him or my marriage.
We have an open marriage (on my end) and I'm "allowed" to have a woman "on the side" . I'm not just looking for a physical relationship or quick fling. I'm an emotional woman, and need to have a deep connection with someone in order to be physical with them. My husband embraces this side of me, and is fully acceptable and doesn't care if I have a 'girlfriend' - either a casual relationship, or (eventually) a woman I fall deeply in love with (and, have a physical relationship with). My husband is secure enough in our marriage to know that if I fall in love with a woman, it doesn't mean my love for him is any less.
I have a lot of time, friendship and love to devote to that special woman
I'm looking for a true emotional connection- one that can be achieved through friendship first, and possibly more. I love to e-mail, text and be online... and will make sure the emotional side of that persons needs are met. I would prefer to have someone that lives within 200 miles of me (I'm in upstate New York)- I don't need to see this person ALL the time (as I can do the emotional connection via other means), but I need to be able to see my 'special woman' every so often, face to face.. arms to arms, lips to lips.I'm willing to be involved with another woman who is, also, bisexual and married - she may understand my situation better. But, I'm willing to be with someone who is single, too, providing she understands I will never leave my husband.
I want a woman who will be my best friend, a special person I would trust with my life. A woman I can (every so often) go shopping with, go out to dinner with... and possibly fall in love, and rock her world
