Nmitch05, 43

I am who I am... I'm kind of at funny transition point in my life. Everything that could go wrong, I've experienced it..so I'm trying to create new patterns of fullfillment and self discovery. I'm mostly looking for friends and don't have any real 'purpose' for joining. I don't have any expectations, just to be myself and have a little fun. I'm a laid back type of guy who enjoys a little of everything. I am tired of leading the pack.. looking to follow for awhile and gain a little more stability.. it's lonely at the top. My job is simple, I piss people off for a living, which is easy, but not always fun. I have been to college, attempted medical school, and let's just say have been through some rough times and just need to chill for awhile. I don't restrict myself to any particular activity or ritual, but I'm not exactly the party animal either, those days are over. I'm looking for a serious person who is intelligent, friendly, expressive (but not flamboyant), compassionate, and who do is not mentally defective in any way. In other words, if you try to change me, forget it. I need someone to listen to me and understand me and who doesn't judge or suggest what emotion I 'should' be expressing at the current time. In other words, you be you and I'll be me. I'm not hard to talk to. Wha-da-ya-think, eh?