Peterthewolf, 71

I joined this site to meet other bi people I have been bi for as long as I can remember, but could never let anyone know because I live in a straight world and all my friends are straight as far as I know. If people were to discover what my real passion is it would create a lot of problems for my family that they should not have to deal with. I don't think being Bi is a choice. It's in our make up whether we like it or not. However, it's not fair to your family or friends to tell them something that will hurt them just so you can feel better about yourself. I didn't choose to be Bi, but I can choose to control my actions. Before the internet a guy like me was stuck with no place to go and many lived out their lives never experiencing their bi side. Being on the internet doesn't mean I can throw caution to the wind. I choose to be very -------- and ultra clean and careful. I would expect anyone I am with to be at least free of desease, clean and --------. I thank God every day for the internet and the person who started Bi sites. I feel that all Bi people are connected in someway.