Sallyjo, 57

I am a 40yo transchick, who believes gender is fairly irrelevant. I am financilly and all around secure in my life. 80% of the people in interact with have no clue about me and i keep it that way. I wander back and forth between the strait and gay communities with no problem. What Im looking for is someone to date and enjoy life with. I have a very positive outlook and am at a place in life where i see it as a buffet and i got a plate. I like to dance and club just as much i do cooking a great meal and watching a movie at home. Im a completely honest person so ask anything. Things i hate - drama, liars, kiddy games and negativity. Things i like - adventure, positivity, adaptability and romance. In the spirit of honesty I have a 5 yo child and he does take up alot of my time. I own my own home, have a great job and my kid goes to great school. Im educated and if all goes well will be going back to school in the fall. Im not the most politically active person, but i do pay attention. I am a femme, my friends call me an UBERFEMME. i dont wear pants, ever. (EXCEPT FOR ONE REASON) ask and i might tell you. I love country music and dancing to swing or country music. BTW I am a great dancer and have competed.
I guess my first date type ideas are dinner at BIN36 or El FIORNOs and then dancing somewhere. I prefer to date women (all my relationships have been with women) but have been told i am to staunch in my ways so who knows.