Steffi81, 43

Discover me Hi, I'm Steffi,

Well I guess I am here because I'm not interested in sites where you could only be "seeking a...". I think bisexuals get a lot of bad press because people think we're either "up for anything" or "confused", usually neither of which is the case!

A bit about me - I'm 29, and live in Colchester. I like dancing, singing, shopping, travelling, taking pictures, making pictures, playing the piano and all sorts of silly things. I have a rather odd sense of humour which will probably get me into trouble one day.

I'm looking for someone kind, intelligent and open-minded. I'm not sure if I'm looking for something long-term, but I certainly wouldn't rule that out if I met the right person.

A good date for me could be almost anything. I like to be wined and dined as much as the next lady, but also wouldn't say no to a day out in the country or a night in with a bottle of wine and a DVD. Or something spontaneous and spectacular. I do like romantic gestures, but nothing too mushy.

Finally, I should also let you know I am transgender (male at birth). The details of my trans status are something I normally keep private, but I'm not out to decieve anyone who might want a relationship with me. I am non-op (have not had surgery and do not currently intend to). I have been taking female hormones since May 2011 and have had some promising breast growth. My voice and manner are very feminine. But as I said, this is not something I like to make a big deal of, and I would want someone to love me for the woman I am, not for the body I have.