William1980, 44

i need a man in my life! here's an honest and basic description of me. i'm a happily married (really married, not pretend chat-room married nonsense) closeted, bi-sexual man. physically, i am strong, tall, overweight, (300lbs. - if you don't have issues with that read on... ) and have large, very muscular arms and legs. i wear a beard and am in no way gay or feminine acting. i have a deep voice, wear glasses, have several tattoos and have very little body hair. basic info i know, but i really want to meet someone and don't want to lead anybody on or play games.
socially, i enjoy light drinking, strongly dislike cigarettes, and don't care to talk politics or religion. i enjoy several hobbies and interests. i have never had and std in my life (and it will stay that way) and i do not use drugs, 420 is fine.
if you're interested, we can get to know each other better through private communication.
i want a friend for a real friendship/sexual relationship. i would prefer a man in a situation similar to my own. a married or divorced family man type of person. someone i can relate to and who is okay to work around a family schedule because he has one of his own and knows how it is. i am totally ok with big/large men as i'm one myself. it can be tough for heavy men but you have nothing to worry about with me if you're overweight. basically, i want a new friend i can have fun hanging out with, have cook-outs, play video games, do normal man stuff with that also desires a very --------, safe, secret affair.
there are tons of men in my situation. happy with their lives but needing something they just can't get from their wives. i need a man in my life.