Zz975, 41

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a person who I can have a relationship with, I'm not interested if --- is the only objective. I'm mostly turned on by intelligence, specifically if my partner is both more intelligent and aggressive than I am, though clear skin and short hair doesn't hurt either. I generally like thin guys and gals who are either very fit or have a few extra pounds. I'm generally pretty bookish, I have two degrees and am working on a third at the same time I'm trying to get a startup going. I'm pretty kinked but ultimately more submissive than not, so I'm looking for a nice person I can feel simpatico with on most issues and who can communicate both eloquently and effectively.

Why I'm here: I'm looking for either a woman or a man that I can relate to, and I'm only looking for bisexual men or women, otherwise I feel like there are these huge gaps in our understanding when talking about intimate matters. I also can't stand sites that make you choose one gender or another that you are looking for and do not allow you to choose "bisexual".